30 Truths

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30 Truths…

by Jennifer Cornell

  1. There comes a point in life when you get tired of chasing everyone  and trying to fix everything, but it’s not giving up.  It’s realizing  you don’t need certain people and things and the drama they bring.
  2. If a person wants to be a part of your life they will make an  obvious effort to do so.  Don’t bother reserving a space in your heart  for people who do not make an effort to stay.
  3. If you want to fly, you have to give up the things that weigh you down – which is not always as obvious and easy as it sounds.
  4. Doing something and getting it wrong is at least ten times more productive than doing nothing.
  5. Every success has a trail of failures behind it, and every failure  is leading towards success.  You don’t fail by falling down.  You fail  by never getting back up.  Sometimes you just have to forget how you  feel, remember what you deserve, and keep pushing forward.
  6. When you get to know people with different ethnic backgrounds, from  different cities and countries, who live at various socioeconomic  levels, you begin to realize that everyone basically wants the same  things.  They want validation, love,  happiness, fulfillment and hopes for a better future.  The way they  pursue these desires is where things branch off, but the fundamentals  are the same.  You can relate to almost everyone everywhere if you look  past the superficial facades that divide us.
  7. The more things you own, the more your things own you.  Less truly gives you more freedom.  Read The Joy of Less.
  8. While you’re busy looking for the perfect person, you’ll probably  miss the imperfect person who could make you perfectly happy.  This is  as true for friendships as it is for intimate relationships.  Finding a  companion or a friend isn’t about trying to transform yourself into the  perfect image of what you think they want.  It’s about being exactly who  you are and then finding someone who appreciates that.
  9. Relationships must be chosen wisely.  It’s better to be alone than  to be in bad company.  There’s no need to rush.  If something is meant  to be, it will happen – in the right time, with the right person, and  for the best reason.
  10. Making a thousand friends is not a miracle.  A miracle is making one  friend who will stand by your side when thousands are against you.
  11. Someone will always be better looking.  Someone will always be  smarter.  Someone will always be more charismatic.  But they will never  be you – with your exact ideas, knowledge and skills.
  12. Making progress involves risk.  Period.  You can’t make it to second base with your foot on first.
  13. Every morning you are faced with two choices:  You can aimlessly  stumble through the day not knowing what’s going to happen and simply  react to events at a moment’s notice, or you can go through the day  directing your own life and making your own decisions and destiny.  Read The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.
  14. Everyone makes mistakes.  If you can’t forgive others, don’t expect  others to forgive you.  To forgive is to set a prisoner free and  discover the prisoner was you.
  15. It’s okay to fall apart for a little while.  You don’t always have  to pretend to be strong, and there is no need to constantly prove that  everything is going well.  You shouldn’t be concerned with what other  people are thinking either – cry if you need to – it’s healthy to shed  your tears.  The sooner you do, the sooner you will be able to smile  again.
  16. We sometimes do things that are permanently foolish just because we  are temporarily upset.  A lot of heartache can be avoided if you learn  to control your emotions.
  17. Someone else doesn’t have to be wrong for you to be right.  There  are many roads to what’s right.  You cannot judge others by your own  past.  They are living a different life than you.  What might be good  for one person may not be good for another.  What might be bad for one  person might change another person’s life for the better.  You have to  allow people to make their own mistakes and their own decisions.
  18. Nobody is perfect, and nobody deserves to be perfect.  Nobody has it  easy.  You never know what people are going through.  Every one of us  has issues.  So don’t belittle yourself or anyone else.  Everybody is  fighting their own unique war.
  19. A smile doesn’t always mean a person is happy.  Sometimes it simply means they are strong enough to face their problems.
  20. The happiest people I know keep an open mind to new ideas and  ventures, use their leisure time as a means of mental development, and  love good music, good books, good pictures, good company and good  conversation.  And oftentimes they are also the cause of happiness in  others – me in particular.
  21. You can’t take things too personally.  Rarely do people do things because of you.  They do things because of them.
  22. Feelings change, people change, and time keeps rolling.  You can  hold on to past mistakes or you can create your own happiness.  A smile  is a choice, not a miracle.  True happiness comes from within.  Don’t  make the mistake of waiting on someone or something to come along and  make you happy.
  23. It’s much harder to change the length of your life than it is to change the depth of it.
  24. You end up regretting the things you did NOT do far more than the things you did.
  25. When you stop chasing the wrong things you give the right things a chance to catch you.
  26. One of the greatest challenges in life is being yourself in a world that’s trying to make you like everyone else.
  27. Enjoy the little things, because one day you may look back and discover they were the big things.  Read The Book of Awesome.
  28. Anyone can make a difference.  Making one person smile can change the world.  Maybe not the whole world, but their world.
  29. Everything is a life lesson.  Everyone you meet, everything you  encounter, etc.  They’re all part of the learning experience we call  ‘life.’  Never forget to acknowledge the lesson, especially when things  don’t go your way.  If you don’t get a job that you wanted or a  relationship doesn’t work, it only means something better is out there  waiting.  And the lesson you just learned is the first step towards it.
  30. Regardless of how filthy your past has been, your future is still  spotless.  Don’t start your day with the broken pieces of yesterday.   Every day is a fresh start.  Each day is a new beginning.  Every morning  we wake up is the first day of the rest of our life.

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